Pré-en-Pail-Saint-Samson. L'antenne mayennaise Maman Blues 53 aide les femmes confrontées à une difficulté maternelle

Parce que l’arrivée d’un enfant peut générer des souffrances psychiques chez une mère, le relais Maman Blues de la Mayenne est là pour les aider.

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